valuable lesson

everytime we encounter obstacles in our lives we always blame others for our misery but never have we actually see thru ourselves to see whats the entire problem. ive learnt a valuable lesson through out the entire holiday. not have i just learn to appreciate things around but also it has opened my eyes wider and heart to accept the wrong turnings in my life. sometimes we can't help it but just do things the wrong way. if there's someone who wants to held a helping hand, why not? im just ordinary, nothing extraordinary about me but im trying. and will always keep on trying. they will never be a fairy tale conclusion when we don't work hard for it. some may say they've work hard enuff to get what they need but i just realise that maybe if we try harder it will just work. sometime what we think is not always right. we think we've done it but in actual fact its just part of our hardship. can people change for the better? yeah i guess so...just keep on trying and have faith in Allah. if until the last resort we still don't get what we wish for...then maybe Allah has better things for us...in the afterlife perhaps? i do believe....